NOT BUDGET

Unless the focus of the Council Budget meetings are on , informed estimates of actual income, mandated expenses , cost reductions , program efficiency and above all departmental plans to accomplish an over all reduction in expenditures there is no percentage in attending the budget hearings which are following the tried and true time wasting formula.

We know from the State's action we may not see a dollar in support from Trenton. Therefor across the Board from the Mayor down to the lowest employee there must be a commitment involving salary give backs, perk rollbacks , including the sharing of services. Until then it is more "fun"to write about "Tiger".

If the man was just an ordinary citizen driven by the same hormones that all males posses there would be little interest in his accident,and/or love life. IT is sad that the majority of Society's members get a vicarious satisfaction when a celebrity falls by the wayside.

What I am going to write will probably create a firestorm of abuse. As a disclaimer I will state that on controversial issues I do not practice what I preach but often take the position of "devil's advocate. Also this is not intended to be a yea or ney position on infidelity and certainly is not scientific since there is no attempt to explain motivation .

I am going to make a statement; "Monogamy is an unnatural human state."

Before you cast stones lets take a survey of those over 25, predicated on the following defining infidelity or adultery as being a relationship between two members of the opposite sex other than a spouse or "lover" or significant other. Any of those terms are synonymous for the sake of this exercise.

(1) I have committed adultery either by;
(a) a prolong affair
(b) a spontaneous act
(c) in thought only, this would be imaging the affair in detail
(d) perish the thought
(e) other-explain

I would trust that your answers would be submitted anonymously but you would identify your sex. After all it takes two to tango. After a couple of days I will post the results probably as percentage of replies.

Be honest since this may give us a better idea of the human animal, I am not asking ethnic origin or religious beliefs since they may tend to affect basic answers.

For a day or two this is better than Plainfield political matters.
I hope it will not the standard for our interests in the next few months.
This is not scientific and it may be open to 100% error.